Sexual aversion - deterioration of sexual relationships, emotional relationships

At some point in a relationship, a crisis of sexual life may arise. It happens that partners generally stop having sex with each other. The reason for the termination of sexual intercourse may be an aversion to intimacy with a partner. Sometimes after some time it turns out that one of the partners has committed treason. Although infidelity does not have to be the reason for a breakup, restoring sexual satisfaction can be extremely difficult, and sometimes simply impossible. Why such an aversion to sex?

1. Sexual aversion - deterioration of sexual relations

The desire for sexual satisfaction outside of relationships is very often the result of a deterioration in the quality of sexual intercourse. These can be routine actions, i.e. constantly the same caresses, the same words, sexual positions, as well as inept stimulation of erogenous zones. If partners do not talk about it, then, as a result, the other person will associate sex with something less and less pleasant. Until at some point it doesn't lose at all want sex with a partner and begins to look for a person who will meet her expectations.

2. Sexual disgust - emotional relationship

Moreover, it appears to be a common cause sexual animosity in a relationship, which means that betrayal is also the failure to fully satisfy non-sexual needs, such as: psychological support, security, emotional intimacy. Consequently emotional distance, lack of conversation about feelings, verbal aggression, lack of communication lead to the fact that in a relationship there is no appropriate emotional climate for physical approach. If both people want to improve their sexual relationship, they should start by having a frank conversation and clearing up any difficult issues related to sex and other painful experiences. If this is not enough, you should contact a sexologist or psychotherapist.

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Article reviewed by an expert:

Anna Belous

Psychologist, psychotherapist, personal trainer.