BDSM - what is it, gadgets, BDSM for beginners

BDSM is a type of sex that includes a dominant and a submissive role. The characteristic elements of BDSM include bondage, discipline, dominance and submission. BDSM sex has a huge fan base, but also a lot of controversy due to its use of violence. What is worth knowing about BDSM?

1. What is BDSM?

BDSM stands for the first letters of four English words: bondage, discipline, dominance in submission (slavery, discipline, domination and submission). This is a type of sexual intercourse in which one person plays the dominant role (top) and the other plays the subordinate role (bottom).

Usually role in BDSM they are permanently assigned to the partners, but sometimes they can be swapped after joint negotiations. During BDSM sex, methods of coercion and discipline are used, but sexual intercourse is not considered rape.

2. What is BDSM?

• bondage - one person is tied, which increases the partner's sense of strength,
• discipline - discipline is applied to the submissive, disobedience is punished,
• dominance (dominion) - one person decides the course of the meeting and gives orders,
• subsidy (submission) - obedience characterizes a person who agreed to humiliation and coercion.

3. Gadgets used during BDSM sex

• holding straps,
• links,
• handcuffs,
• fasteners and clips (usually placed on the nipples),
• whip - impose penalties without the risk of cutting the skin,
• whip - cause severe pain, not recommended for beginners,
• harness,
• masks,
• leash,
• collar,
• scarves - used for disguise,
• latex suits.

4. BDSM for beginners

BDSM sex does not have to be based on extreme experiences, such fantasies can be introduced gradually and adapted to individual preferences. A good way to diversify your sex life can be covering your eyeswhich increases the sensation and automatically makes one person more active and dominant.

After a while, you can try to tie your hands together or screw them, for example, to the head of the bed. Beginners are advised to use a cloth or tie rather than handcuffs. As a result, a humble person realizes that he can free himself at any moment.

If both partners enjoy the introduction of elements of BDSM, then a stronger emphasis on the division of roles can be made and punishments, such as spanking, can be introduced.

5. Is BDSM sex legal?

The practice of BDSM in Poland with the consent of both partners is not subject to legal sanctions. Imprisonment for a term of 2 to 12 years threatens those who promote sexual violence.

On the other hand, there are countries where BDSM sex is banned. An example is the United Kingdom, where there is no consent to inflict pain on another person, even if he consents to it.

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