Fight for yourself

PI was just looking at the layout for Martha and I didn't like what I saw. The cards heralded a lack of independence, protest not expressed aloud, and dissatisfaction with life. In tarot, the girl was personified by the sensitive and fearful Moon, which was simply overwhelmed by the inverted lasso of the Queen of Swords and the Empress.

Vampire mummy

“You have problems with your mother,” I said. You have made yourself dependent on yourself. Besides, I'm sure he's using you.

Martha said nothing, so I continued, “I treat you like a child. If you are going to improve your current position, you must separate yourself from her - as I said, I took out more arcana, and the cards showed worse and worse.

“Mom is sick,” she whispered. He needs my care.

This statement did not fit everything. Therefore, I separated from the deck a set informing about the health of an elderly lady.

“No, I said. "My mother has kidney problems, but this has never happened, and nothing alarming happens." I dare say she's in better shape than you. Because the nerves give up. I believe you have stomach problems and spastic bowel disease.

“You can work with him,” she underestimated. And my mother's heart...

“… looks like a bell,” I finished. - How old are you?

“37,” she sighed. - I dream of getting married, but what to hide. Nobody wanted me.

- About 3-4 years ago, you missed the chance for a good relationship. Is this mom?

"He's gone," she announced defensively.

- Of course. “Because you were afraid of your dependence on your future mother-in-law,” I muttered.

- Mrs. Martha, in 2 years you will have a successful relationship with a divorced man. You can create a warm and cozy home for yourself. However, this will be possible only on one condition: you will be mentally free from your mother. This is a complex process. I suggest you find a psychotherapist. Please take my words seriously,” I protested, although deep down I was not at all sure that he would listen to me.

And in fact. After 3 years we met again. Martha did not change her position. As before, she was afraid to even think about going up against the mantis mother. It is a pity that this did not happen. Because it's always worth fighting for yourself. Otherwise, life will be gray, dull or completely meaningless.

Women's repair team.

Let Yvona's story serve as a positive example. She worked at a large enterprise as a secretary to the chief director. She was young, educated, competent, intelligent. But the chief had an unpleasant character, and he took out his anger on her. He lashed out at her fiercely and with satisfaction. When it came to the point that he demanded to allow his subordinate to spend no more than 3 minutes in the toilet, I said that it was time to end the tyranny and invited me to fortune-telling.

"Don't worry, my love," I began, comforting my depressed friend.

“Easy for you to say,” she said.

- In a situation where secretaries are literally in bunches ...

“Maybe you don’t have to be a clerk at all?” Tarot says you should start your own business. You will surely come up with something ... - I thought. “Your mom told me once that you renovated the bathroom. Apparently it was sensational.

She looked doubtfully: "Will I be a professional glazing?"

- Not only. Can be painted and varnished. You will also learn how to grind.

“But people prefer to order repairs from reputable companies,” she objected.

— The one where the guys work? Well, that's where you're wrong, I said. What is whisper marketing for? In any case, not a single potential client will hesitate to choose you if you note female accuracy, punctuality, professionalism and, as a bonus, cleaning after work on your site.

"Do you seriously think so?" she asked doubtfully, but her eyes sparkled. “I think I could try.

Today Ivona has 3 more friends. The entrepreneur has a completed calendar for six months ahead. And she never regretted that she left her permanent job.

Goal matters most

Sometimes, however, no prospects are visible. Life becomes unbearable. Finish with him? Not!

One day I visited my friend's grandmother in a nursing home. Next to him was a completely paralyzed old woman. Friendly, cheerful. So I asked what keeps her in a good mental state.

“Everyone is so busy here,” she replied. So I pray for them. Instead, she clarified. Or for them. Although I can't move, I can also do something useful if I want to.

I remembered it for years.

Beloved, no matter what happens, you should set a goal and achieve it. In any, even seemingly hopeless situation.

Maria Bigoshevskaya