10+1 reasons why it's good to be single

Undoubtedly, there are many great benefits in a relationship. You can read about 12 of them in . Of course, it's great to be in a healthy relationship and have the opportunity to fulfill yourself in a relationship with a partner, but before that, we usually encounter unhealthy relationships, failed relationships and… damned loneliness.

Usually, the time of celibacy is perceived as a cross - the greatest punishment that we had to atone for. Then we look for someone we can get close to, i.e. we vibrate at the level of desperation. If, on the other hand, we are vibrating at this frequency, it means that we cannot attract good, healthy, and fulfilling relationships.

Only by accepting and accepting the stage of loneliness can we prepare for a good relationship. How do you like being lonely? How to stop vibrating from the level of scarcity and begin to vibrate from abundance in a relationship between a man and a woman? Well, enough to know the scene and its undeniable advantages. Otho one:

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1. You can travel

Without any prohibitions, without a big plan, without logistics and checking the calendar with a partner. Do you want adventure? You take your backpack with you and leave. You don't tailor your plans to your family or partner. Singles can travel unlimited.

 2. you can meet people

And you can do it on a romantic level, gaining experience and agreeing with yourself about what you can agree to in future, potential relationships, and what not. Flirting improves mood, makes life tastier. Treat meeting other people as an experience and just as an intense social phase of your life.

3. You have opportunities for self-development

In partnership, of course, too, but not on the scale that we deal with when we are alone. You have time and space to develop as a person, work on your body and soul, and meditate. You can search for activities that you potentially enjoy, test it out, and see how you get into it. Use this time to spread your wings.

4. You have time for self-development

When you live a single life, you have time to do what YOU WANT to do. You have no idea how long it takes to maintain a fresh but warm relationship. Constant news, meetings, phone calls and suddenly it turns out that there is very little time left for you. Use it!

5. You can sleep in peace and quiet

Of course, it's nice to sleep in someone's arms, but, you see, you have a whole bed! You can get into exactly the position you want, cover yourself in as many layers as you need, and use exactly all the pillows you have at home. It is worth enjoying uninterrupted, long sleep without starting from the blanket.

6. You are learning to be independent.

After a breakup and the beginning of a single life, you may be afraid of independence. All of a sudden, all the responsibilities divided in half are left on your head. It's amazing! Take this as a challenge and start learning to be self-reliant and create your own independence. This will come in handy in your next relationship, because independent partners are much more attractive than those who are dependent and need regular rescue.

7. You update your friends

And you strengthen ties not only with friends, but also with family. After all, you have more time for them. Unfortunately, when we start creating a family with someone, social contacts involuntarily weaken due to a limited amount of free time or general fatigue. Now that you have the time and space, make sure you keep in touch with your friends on a regular basis.

8. You know who you want to let into your life.

Often, unsatisfactory relationships continue because of shared commitments, routines, and habits. Partners do not live together, but side by side. Do you know that living in such an environment is a curse? If you become single, you will quickly learn to distinguish between the people you want to let into your life and those who will be a good choice for you in the long run. Enjoy this privilege!

9. You can take care of yourself and everything you care about.

Relationships require work from both sides, care, care and compromise. Now that you don't have to face it, you can direct all your energy in exactly the direction you want. I guarantee that when the person you want to go through life with comes into your life, you will put all your energy into it. Take care!

10. You will find out who you really are.

Of course, in a relationship, you also will not escape the process of self-discovery. The second person, like no one else, points out our shortcomings and shows us everything in a magnifying mirror. But discovering yourself in times of loneliness is something so precious that it would be a shame to just miss it and miss the opportunity to discover yourself. Loneliness is complete freedom, a change of residence and work without obligations, the search for one's own path and place in the world. You will never have that degree of freedom and that kind of freedom again.

11. Cheaper maintenance and more independence

Alone, it is easier for you to maneuver in the world of finance and savings. You can do whatever you want with your money without looking back at anyone. As a single person, you also have more control over them. However, as a result, you need to pay attention to the other side and consult with them on financial matters, especially when you are moving towards starting a family.

If you change your attitude towards your condition - and temporarily, if it's not your personal choice - your vibration will change. By changing the vibration, you have the opportunity to meet someone at the same level. Imagine that in a state of deprivation and desire for interpersonal relationships, you meet a person on a similar frequency. Do such relationships have a right to exist? Were they happy, satisfied and, above all, healthy?

Remember that everything that vibrates at a frequency similar to yours will stick to you sooner or later, so take care of your vibration and get rid of the feeling of thirst, because it is generated by lack. Discover the benefits of being alone and squeeze this life stage like a lemon.

Nadine Lu